Now I realize that there are many different situations families find themselves in. Some kids are adopted, sometimes there are tragic situations that result in unique family structures, that’s not what we are talking about today. The question is, if you are the parent for a child, are you really being their parent? There are many roles other people will play in our children’s lives but very few are called to play the role of their parent. When we are called to play that role, it’s important we actually do. 

Our kids will have friends, teachers, teammates, leaders, etc. we are called to be the parent. That’s not to say we won’t be friendly or teach or lead them. We will, but it should be as the parent. If we don’t play that role for our kids, who will? So when it’s tempting to be something different, remember if you’re not doing it, who is? Kids need parents. They need in their life a role of unconditional love yet boundaries, rules, and guidelines. They need someone who says “I love you no matter what but I also have expectations for the kinds of behaviors and attitudes you’ll engage in.” 

Your kids may have teachers that care for them but they won’t love them like you will. Your kids may have friends that are fun to be around but they won’t set the expectations of how to be a good person and follow Christ like you will. Don’t miss the opportunity to be your kid’s parent. Don’t let time get by and realize that your 18 year old has had a lot of friends, teachers, and caregivers, but no one playing “parent.” It’s our calling, it’s our job, it’s our opportunity, let’s seize it.